Gender maze at glance

Fern
… and you say you are a woman of verve dormant,
nothing is there for you to be startled about, nothing,
startling about you either, just beauty, and the life you live.
For it all comes to you. Yes… no… - words that make your life.
And, you know, that it’s all about the power of give and,
the weakness of take, you behold…   

… and you say you are a man of gallantry great,
you saw it all or, rather ‘ve been married and divorced
to what startled you times copious and, it was much
to your like or rather likes of your life, that do’s and  don’t’s make.
Similar to ‘no’ and ‘yes’ of a woman, yet, gravely different,
for the power of take and the weakness of give, you confined of…