Moon's reflection in a lake has no separate existence apart from the moonlight.
The moonlight has no separate existence apart from the sun.
On the same manner, PERSONAL i is nothing but a reflection of the IMPERSONAL I and the latter is a reflection of the UNKNOWN.
In reality, all is one light, as you see.
This knowledge alone dissolves the reflection which returns to its source.
All mentioned above is a drop in the ocean, rational structure, mental concept, metaphor.
It's in your head only.
Go beyond.