Waste of time?

...It was quite interesting conversation. We were duscussing a pretty popular theme nowadays. "Distant marriage". I guess u dont need any explanation what the topic was about. Most of the people had an almost the same opinion, that its not a family, when parents are separated..."it's not NORMAL"-they were saying, uncluding me. There was one girl, who said to me "Why are you saying that if your boyfriend is living so far away from you?!" I didnt like that...and I decided to reply..."First of all, we didnt marry yet. Second of all, when we plan our marriage, we are thinking of living together, there is even no any another option. We are family, we need to live together, we need each other, we need to feel support from each other and just to BE next each other...". Dont know why, but almost everybody showed a great interest to my situation. So I heard replies, like.."it's too difficult even now", "why should u wait and hope that everything will be perfect? Take off your pink sunglasses", "What if it's just a waste of time??". And here I realized, that these people had no idea what I was talking about. "So...What are u talking about?? Have you ever loved? Or been loved? Have you ever felt that someone is the centre of your life, your reason to live and just your stimulus for every step?! How can it be just waste of time? How come? We are the happiest people in the world when we meet each other after long period of being separated. We feel each other...we live for each other. And yes! We have a great future together! That is the most important detail of everything! We have a goal, and we are achiving it by every step, every minute...the main engine is a desire...desire to be happy and only with each other!! We move together, we are getting wiser together, we learn how to live and how to solve problems. But everything what we do, we do it together and for each other. I believe that this is the best relationship, which I've ever had and will have! now I can say without any doubts, that I AM PROUD of my relationship and I AM proud of my man. With this relationship I travel a lot and its amazing, I meet different people, I find out many new useful things. When we are separated I can devote my time only to me, my studying, coz its very important for me now. But every second, every moment of my life I remember, that somewhere there...there is a person, who loves me and whos heart belongs to me only. May be it seems to be hard, but its not, and we have no problems, we have just some situations, which we always overcome and go forward! Life is a movement, so we LIVE! And the basis of everything, what I said, is LOVE! So now...would u say that its just a waste of time? "...